show me your friend and i will tell you who you are. finding it hard to define yourself? simple take a long good look at your friends. how do people make friends? on a practical level, it is quite acceptable to say that one requires like-minded people in order to achieve their goals, visions, etc. so, if your friends are people bearing certain distinct traits and characters, then to some extent, wouldn't one be justified to say "you are the embodiment of your friends' characters" or in other words; show me your friends and i will tell you who you are. assessed your friends? don't like what you see? no cause for alarm. it simply means you need to move on to people who have what you would like to have. refuse to settle. and above all, be willing to change. i have been chanced (strange choice of word) to experience what it is like to walk with the right and "wrong" crowd. let us compare the two experiences. the wrong crowd. there are times yo...